The Destination Is Only a Moment
Learnings from Fortune 100 executives and building Social Playbook
Waddup friends - quick note before we get into this one.
If you’re new here, welcome. Over the last few weeks, a lot of you found this newsletter through posts about content roles, AI and where things are heading in 2026. I’ve also met some really cool people through Substack Notes and I don’t take any of that lightly.
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Tonight’s post is a little more reflective than tactical. Sunday night felt like the right moment for it.
This past week was a roller coaster.
The highs were real. My clients are seeing tangible results from the strategies we’re executing, which is deeply rewarding. I’ve always believed I was good at what I do, but there’s something different about proving it consistently.
One client called me after a coffee chat he had with another founder. They talked about founder-led content. When he mentioned my name, the person he was speaking with lit up and said they had me on their radar and wanted to work with me in the near future.
Another founder messaged me on Slack and asked, half-joking, if I was “famous.” He’d added me to an email thread with a partner brand and the response back was:
“Chase Coleman?! No way. What’s up?”
I say none of this to sound full of myself. It was just one of those moments where you zoom out and realize, damn…after how much of a roller coaster 2025 was, I can feel my self-confidence coming back.
And yet, even in those moments, doubt still sneaks in. That tension never really goes away.
Which brings me to a conversation I think about often.
When I was 23, I used to ride into the Starbucks office with my uncle from time to time. At the time, he was an executive there and he’s currently on the boards of companies you’ve definitely heard of. To me, he represented the life I thought I wanted.
Riding into the office garage in a Porche 911, everyone around the office knew who he was, making decisions, traveling around the globe and being essentially praised as he walked into any Starbucks. To me, that was IT - that was the goal.
One morning, he said something that completely changed how I think about success.
“Chase, enjoy the journey. The destination is only a moment in time and it’s not as great as you think it is. You spend all this time chasing it. Once you get there, you realize you have no one to talk to. Everything becomes political. People are nice to you because of your position, not because of who you are.”
Then he paused and said something I’ll never forget:
“I’m still trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up. I need to be chasing something. That’s the fun part.”
That was jarring to hear at 23. From someone I assumed had it all figured out.
Over the years, I’ve had similar conversations with people who’ve reached what most would consider the pinnacle. CEOs. Board members. Executives at massive companies.
The pattern is always the same.
They don’t feel finished.
They don’t feel settled.
And many of them quietly admit the destination is…kind of boring.
I think we’re sold this idea that once we reach a certain title, income or position, something inside us clicks into place.
But the destination is fleeting. It’s a moment. And then your brain immediately asks, what’s next?
Always wanting more is exhausting.
Always chasing the next milestone never really turns off.
What I’ve come to value more than titles or money is freedom. The ability to decide how I spend my time. Who I work with. What I say yes and no to. The space to build a life I actually want to live, not one that just looks impressive from the outside.
Ambition isn’t the problem.
Chasing the wrong version of success is.
The journey is where the meaning lives. The conversations. The work. The doubt. The momentum. The setbacks. The growth you don’t notice until you look back.
The destination is just a snapshot.
If this resonated, hit reply. I’d genuinely love to hear what you’re chasing right now - or what you’re starting to question.
See you next week.
Chase Coleman
Founder of Social Playbook
Notes on content, creators, performance, and building Social Playbook.